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Short answer: choose water-based if you want something that washes off easily and feels natural. Choose silicone if you want it to stay slippery for longer, for example during anal sex or in the shower. Both are safe with latex condoms. Read below to find out why, and what to look out for. Water-based lubricant: the all-rounder Water-based lubricant feels most like your own natural moisture, washes off easily and leaves no stains. You can use it with anything: latex condoms and toys made from any material. That makes it the safest choice if you are unsure. The downside: water evaporates. During longer sessions, you may need to reapply it occasionally. A few drops of water or saliva are often enough to revive the lubricant. Do you often experience irritation? Then choose a lubricant that is as natural as possible, such as this natural lubricant from Aia. It is a pleasant, moisturising choice. Do you also use condoms? Then the natural latex condom combo deal is a convenient option. For extremely sensitive skin, we recommend aloe vera lubricant from The Natural Love Company. It is made from 99.2% organic ingredients and carries The Vegan Society's approval.  Silicone-based lubricant: long-lasting, slippery and water-resistant Silicone lubricant does not soak in or evaporate. As a result, it stays slippery for much longer than water-based lubricant and you need less of it. This makes it popular for anal sex: the anus does not produce any moisture on its own, so you want a lubricant that does not dry out halfway through. Because it does not dissolve in water, you can also use it in the shower or bath. Please note: the floor or bath may become slippery. Silicone lubricant is also safe with latex condoms. Whether you can use it with a silicone toy depends on the quality of that toy. Cheaper silicone can be damaged by silicone lubricant, making it sticky or rough. That is why we only stock toys that do not have this problem: all LieLei toys can be used with silicone lubricant without any worries. Do you have a toy from another brand? Then check the manufacturer's advice or choose water-based lubricant to be safe. It is slightly harder to wash off than water-based lubricant. Use water and a mild soap that does not affect the pH balance of your fun area. What about oil? Coconut oil, baby oil or a bottle of massage oil are often already at home, so it is tempting. However, we advise against using oil as a lubricant. Oil weakens latex condoms, making them more likely to break. In addition, oil is difficult to wash off. The exception is our natural massage oil from Aia. Despite its name, it is made on a water base. You can therefore use it safely as a lubricant, even with condoms and toys. Convenient if a massage turns into something more... Which one is right for you? Situation Water-based Silicone Latex condom ✓ ✓ Silicone toy ✓ ✓ with LieLei toys; check the manufacturer for other brands Glass or metal toy ✓ ✓ Anal sex ✓ (reapply more often) ✓ (stays slippery for longer) In the shower or bath ✗ (washes off) ✓ Sensitive skin ✓ (choose natural) ✓ Easy to wash off ✓ Requires a little more effort   Still unsure? Send us a DM or email info@lielei.nl, and we will be happy to help. #talkwithLieLei Let the fun begin! 💙   FAQ: frequently asked questions about lubricant What is the difference between water-based and silicone-based lubricant?Water-based lubricant feels natural, washes off easily and is suitable for all toys, but evaporates more quickly. Silicone stays slippery for much longer and also works in water. Can I use silicone lubricant with a silicone toy?Yes, with all LieLei toys, because we only stock toys that are safe to use with it. Silicone lubricant can damage the surface of toys from other brands. Check the manufacturer's advice or choose water-based lubricant. Which lubricant is safe with condoms?Both water-based and silicone-based lubricants are safe with latex condoms. Do not use oil, coconut oil or massage oil, as they weaken latex. Can I use coconut oil or massage oil as a lubricant?It is better not to. Oil weakens latex condoms and is difficult to wash off. Aia's natural massage oil is an exception: it is made on a water base and is safe to use as a lubricant and with condoms. Which lubricant is best for anal sex?Silicone lubricant is popular because it stays slippery for a long time. Water-based lubricant can also be used, but you will need to reapply it more often. Which lubricant is suitable for sensitive skin?Always choose a lubricant without fragrance. And choose a lubricant that is as natural as possible, with as little or no glycerine. Too much glycerine can irritate sensitive mucous membranes.

Your body and your mind don't always work together. And that's perfectly normal. In this blog, we explain what getting wet actually is, why it's not the same as being aroused, and why natural lubricant is for everyone; not just for those "who can't get it up."

Safe sex is more than just using contraceptives like condoms. Safe sex also means using good products—even when you’re having sex with yourself. Because did you know that many sex toys and lubricants are still made from materials that are better off not being used in or on your body? And that poor-quality lubricant or toy cleaner can disrupt your natural balance? In this blog, we’ll explain why safe sex toys and intimate products aren't just an unnecessary luxury, but a must. And how, at Lielei.nl, you can be sure you’re choosing safe, sustainable, and enjoyable alternatives. Why the material of your vibrator (really) matters Many people don’t think about it, but the quality of the material used in your vibrator or butt plug is important. Toys made from cheap silicone or plastic can contain plasticizers (such as phthalates), which can be harmful to your health. These substances can cause irritation, allergic reactions, or even hormonal disruptions. Always make sure your sex toys are made from body-safe materials such as medical-grade silicone, stainless steel, and borosilicate glass. These materials are: Free from phthalates and (micro)plastics Easy to clean Free from toxic substances Durable and wear-resistant This way, you not only enjoy wonderful self-care moments, but you also know for sure that you aren't taking any risks. Safe sex = safe lubricant too A safe toy deserves a safe lubricant. Many lubricants contain parabens, glycerin, or fragrance—ingredients that can disrupt your vaginal flora or cause irritation. That’s why you should always choose a lubricant that suits both your body and your toy. Because even if you don't react to the lubricant, it can sometimes damage your sex toy. What a shame! When buying a lubricant, always ensure that it is: Compatible with silicone toys. pH-neutral and vegan. Free from unnecessary junk. This keeps your intimate area healthy and your toy in top condition. Water-based lubricant is often a good choice. However, sometimes you are better off choosing a silicone-based lubricant. Want to know when to choose which? Take a look at this blog. Cleaning = respect for yourself and your toy Another important aspect of safe sex is hygiene. Cleaning your toy with water alone? Unfortunately, that is often not enough. A good toy cleaner not only removes visible residue but also kills bacteria without damaging your toy. We only offer mild, effective toy cleaners that: Do not contain alcohol (so they are gentle on silicone). Are quick and easy to use. Extend the lifespan of your toy. This keeps both you and your toy happy.   Sustainable, conscious, and body safe: that’s Lielei Whether you’re looking for a safe vibrator, a sustainable dildo, a lubricant without the fuss, or a toy cleaner that actually works—at Lielei, you shop with peace of mind. We carefully test and select all our products, so you know: this is truly safe sex. Do you want to be sure that your toys are safe for your body and good for the planet? Take a look around our webshop or read more in our other tips & tricks blogs.

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